Take a lesson...

from this 11 year old boy.

Chemistry = Laughter

Don't know why this eluded me for so long... but it's simple. Shared Genuine Laughter = Chemistry.

This is why it only feels natural for me to escalate during shared laughter... I would escalate regardless, but it never felt right unless we were sharing genuine laughter.

The amusement part of self amusement makes much more sense to me now as well.

Also, I recently realized the color of Washington's White Horse.

Why is it things that are so obvious and simple escape our awareness?

"Shit test busters"

When I went to the Jeffy free conference, he mentioned a few ways to pass shit tests.  Funny thing was he learrned these when he was new in the game, and saw them as tools.  Me, learning from the NU-rsd, developed them naturally just as a way of fuckin around.

For instance, "If by x you mean y"...

"You're a loser" " If by loser, you mean sexy, then yeah"

Your mom, Your face,

"Go away" "Your MOM goes away!"

Fun tymez... got me thinking about if I have any other fun things I do frequently to pass shit tests, came up with a few

Yes and...: the name come from an improv technique... you never disagree with an assertion, you simply agree and add something.  Incedeintally, this also leads to some fun role plays.

"Didya miss me?" "Devastated"

"We're lesbians" "Definitely.  HUGE dykes.  What's it like?"

"Do you hate me now?" "Yeah man, we're not even talking anymore... and btw, I WANT my mixtape back!"

The response to all name calling... Feminism.  

"Sup loser" "sup losette"

"You're such a dork" "Psssssh... Dorkette."

Sometimes if the shit test is innappropriate, I don't reward it with any sort of banter.

"Do you even care about me?" "Stop" "Blah blah" "Not joking" "But you blah blah" "You can stop or you can leave."

Then there's some more common ones, like ignoring, acknowledging and changing threads, etc.

I'm not gonna be posting much hopefully, but I will try to keep up with little articles like this or chatlogs.  Not much groundbreaking here but fuck it.

Leading...

This one hit me hard... the truth.

Start Sarging Again?

I think I may start Sarging again... had a situation a few days ago where a girl wanted me to escalate... and I wanted to escalate... but I didn't.

Unacceptable.  I think I may have to get back into it... It seems I have yet to find a healthy balance.

Aim Snippet of the Week

And now for something completely different.  

Some cheesy latenight fun.

"Her" (3:29:41 AM): hola

Auto Response from Him (3:29:41 AM): Crazy Times.

Him (3:29:53 AM): como estas?
"Her" (3:30:01 AM): im chilly
"Her" (3:30:06 AM): how are you?
Him (3:30:19 AM): muy bien
"Her" (3:30:38 AM): shit.. thats as far as my spanish vocab goes.. anything past muy bien and im fucked
"Her" (3:30:39 AM): haha
Him (3:31:02 AM): well
Him (3:31:05 AM): this is ok with me
Him (3:31:09 AM): yo estoy tambien
Him (3:40:23 AM): so hold my hand
Him (3:40:28 AM): I'll take you anywhere
Him (3:40:30 AM): everywhere
Him (3:40:33 AM): you want to gooo
"Her" (3:41:11 AM): well i sure do love holding hands and going places
"Her" (3:41:12 AM): so sure
"Her" (3:41:12 AM): haha
Him (3:47:03 AM): so
Him (3:47:05 AM): where are we going
Him (3:47:10 AM): let's go to venice
Him (3:47:14 AM): WHOOOOSHH
Him (3:47:17 AM): who
Him (3:47:21 AM): look at that cloud
Him (3:47:26 AM): what does that look like to you
"Her" (3:47:31 AM): a heart
Him (3:47:47 AM): awwww
Him (3:47:50 AM): romantic
Him (3:47:53 AM): :-*
"Her" (3:48:35 AM): we in venice yet?
Him (3:49:35 AM): use your imagination girly
Him (3:49:40 AM): and yes, we just landed
Him (3:49:43 AM): open your eyes
Him (3:49:44 AM): gosh
"Her" (3:50:31 AM): oh look, i see some guy peeing on the street corner.. how nice
Him (3:50:46 AM): yeah but that's the biggest dick I've ever seen
Him (3:50:53 AM): Iguess what they say about italiansis true
"Her" (3:51:17 AM): that they're hairy and loud?
Him (3:51:29 AM): exactly
Him (3:51:42 AM): let's go get some spaghetti!
"Her" (3:52:13 AM): mmm of course! with meatballs
"Her" (3:52:16 AM): i sure do love balls
"Her" (3:52:17 AM): haha
Him (3:52:30 AM): I know darling
Him (3:52:35 AM): but not in front of the waiter
"Her" (3:52:51 AM): thank goodness for table cloths than
Him (3:52:57 AM): yeup
"Her" (3:54:01 AM): so what do you want to do after we eat babe
Him (3:54:16 AM): high speed boat chase
"Her" (3:54:35 AM): are we being chased or the ones chasing
Him (3:54:45 AM): you'll chase me
Him (3:55:03 AM): probably cause i ruined your dress when you were donig naughty things to me under the tabble cloth
"Her" (3:55:42 AM): oh that doesnt bother me, i know the dress is coming off anyways
Him (3:55:48 AM): good point
Him (3:55:50 AM): oh wells
Him (3:55:54 AM): catch me if you can
"Her" (3:56:23 AM): the waves are going to knock over some unsuspecting people in a canoe
Him (3:56:38 AM): hahaha
Him (3:56:41 AM): look
Him (3:56:45 AM): taht guy can't evne swim
"Her" (3:57:06 AM): think i should go back and help him?
Him (3:57:11 AM): nah
Him (3:57:18 AM): he'll find away to not drown i'm sure
"Her" (3:58:18 AM): yeah im sure he'll use his girlfriends fake boobs as floatation devices
Him (3:58:30 AM): psssh
Him (3:58:37 AM): waste of perfectly good tools if you ask me
Him (3:58:48 AM): h
Him (3:58:54 AM): I want to swim now
Him (3:59:01 AM): *jumps in water
"Her" (3:59:14 AM): i must follow you in
"Her" (3:59:20 AM): i love swimming
Him (3:59:25 AM): me too
"Her" (3:59:57 AM): i'll be able to catch you for sure while swimming
"Her" (4:00:07 AM): so what happens when I finally catch you
Him (4:00:24 AM): I probably kiss you
"Her" (4:00:42 AM): and i'll probably wont let you stop
"Her" (4:01:24 AM): i do enjoy kisses
"Her" (4:01:29 AM): many many kisses
Him (4:03:00 AM): my hands may or may not start to wander over your body
Him (4:03:13 AM): exploring every feminine thing about you that makes you a female
"Her" (4:04:18 AM): well the water sure is chilly, so you'd be doing my poor nipples a favor if you kept rubbing them
Him (4:05:03 AM): well why don't we get out of water
Him (4:05:07 AM): and back onto a boaot
"Her" (4:05:39 AM): i like the way you think darling
"Her" (4:06:13 AM): so now you have a dripping wet girl in a dress clinging to all of her curves all alone with you on a boat
"Her" (4:06:18 AM): what do you plan on doing
Him (4:06:59 AM): well
Him (4:07:04 AM): first of all
Him (4:07:07 AM): just looking
Him (4:07:13 AM): and drinking it all in
Him (4:07:20 AM): then probably walking towards
Him (4:07:21 AM): you
Him (4:07:32 AM): and still looking and taking it all in
Him (4:07:37 AM): but mostly your eyes.
"Her" (4:08:23 AM): you keep looking into my eyes like that and you will be sure to have hands all over you in no time
Him (4:09:00 AM): well I don't think you'll be able to do that as they're both pinned against the will with my right hand.
Him (4:09:07 AM): which leaves my eyes free to look
Him (4:09:13 AM): and my left hand free to tantalize you.
"Her" (4:09:26 AM): kiss me
Him (4:09:36 AM): I'm having fun looking.
Him (4:09:38 AM): ok
Him (4:09:42 AM): I can't resist any loger
Him (4:09:48 AM): *kisses Her
"Her" (4:10:10 AM): no the question is what are you kissing
Him (4:10:21 AM): your mouth
Him (4:10:23 AM): meanwhile
Him (4:10:32 AM): my hand my have worked it's way under your soaking wet dress
Him (4:10:52 AM): and my ever so slightly be brushing along your thighs and occasionally crossing your moud
"Her" (4:12:09 AM): i would start to let out a very soft little moan
Him (4:12:26 AM): that would probably be appropriate
Him (4:12:44 AM): which may make you tantalize you even further
Him (4:12:55 AM): going under your panties but still being EVER so slight with my touches
"Her" (4:13:38 AM): i start to tremble and shake with anticipation
Him (4:14:00 AM): I should really get to bed
Him (4:14:04 AM): it's 4:15
"Her" (4:14:08 AM): haha okie
"Her" (4:14:11 AM): sweet dreams
Him (4:14:12 AM): gnite darling
Him (4:14:15 AM): sleep well
Him (4:14:16 AM): dream well
Him (4:14:24 AM): I'm sure your dreams will be ever so wonderful tonite
Him (4:14:27 AM): wake well.