The Ultimate High Value Trait

I'm going to ask you a question.

And this is something I really want you to put some thought into, because it's a BIG question.

A question that has profound impact on your inner-man, and your inner purpose.

"What do you want them to say about you at your funeral?"

What impact, do YOU want to have had on the people you meet, that when you are merely a body, buried far below the surface of this earth, they will remember you by.

Who is "they"?

Your family, your friends...
Your peers, and coworkers...
The cashier at the supermarket, the girl you had a one night stand with...

How do you want to have affected their lives?

When they stand up at the funeral, standing in front of the people you really care about... what would you want them to say?

I know what I want them to say.

The one phrase that I would be HONORED, to have said at my funeral, the one way that I KNOW I want to affect people.

"He brought out the best in me."


He brought out the best in me... What a fucking COMPLIMENT. He held himself to such high standards, we connected so much, he was so understanding, he was so INSPIRING... that he caused me to be those things as well.

It's the Ultimate High Value Trait.

Not only to BE high value, but to INSPIRE others to be high value as well. Not only to bring out your own inner-man, and live through him, but to inspire others to bring out their inner-men and inner-women as well, to have them hold themselves to the same high standard you hold yourself to.

I don't want my funeral to be filled with a bunch of people saying how good I am. A much HIGHER compliment, I believe, would be a bunch of people talking about how good I made THEM.

A High Value person raises other people UP to their level.

There's actually an entire school of seduction which says that you should LOWER a girls value... how can that possibly make any sense?

Why would a high value person have the need to lower other's value?

You need to make a choice. Who do you want to be, the guy who makes her feel so insecure about herself that she has to sleep with you just to regain her validation?

...Or the guy who makes her feel so confident that she CHOOSES to sleep with you, and fuck what society thinks.

The guy who judges, condemns, and negs the girl, or the one who accepts and listens to her?

What kind of impact do you want to have on other's lives?

When you're gone, do you want her to be saying "He made me feel like shit, so I slept with him to feel better about myself."?

FUCK THAT.

The ultimate high value trait. The guy who inspires others to be better. The guy who everyone wants to be around, because they know they can who they were meant to be.

Make the Choice.

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Matched this MILF on the "Are you Interested" App.


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Gonna need a little more than a wink :).

Show some personality...

Ok so I read the whole thing, lol, I like everything you had to say..Humor is key..I live off of it...the wink was pretty cheap I know...I just wanted you to write first...:)

yeah the wink was cheap.

So you have me at a disadvantage... you have my whole profile....all I have is "click YES to me!" :-P.

So, evening the odds... choose three adjectives to describe yourself... then use them in a story :D.

Sexy, Hilarious, Fearless.........What would you do if you met a Hilarious bitch who grabbed your ass and whispered "I'm sexy" in a fearless voice?


Well I might have to laugh because of her hilariousness... then maybe slam her against the wall for a hot make out due to her sexiness.

And if she truly was fearless I wouldn't stop there...

But that's just me.