It's her loss... Misconceptions of Abundance

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-n6ehVRzA-s

Take a look at that clip, then ask yourself:
Who has the abundance mentality in this situation, Chip or Hitch?

Pretty easy exercise, but how bout this one:
Who's more likely to be the one saying "Her loss" as he stalks away?

Yeup, that creepy bastard, Chip. Hitch would never be caught DEAD saying those words, because he knows the truth:




It's OUR loss. She's missing out... but so am I.

There will never be another girl on this planet who can teach me what she would have.

There will never be another girl on this planet who can give me the experiences she would have.

I will never meet another her.

And of course, she'll never meet another guy as sexy as me.


Abundance is not treating a girl like a number. Girls are people, treat them that way. No, they're not replaceable. No matter how many sexual options you have, they'll NEVER be replacable.

A funny thing starts happening when you start treating girls like people... they start acting like people.

We're all guilty of writing LR's talking about girls as numbers, as bodies, as trophies. She does all sorts of crazy insensitive shit, and we sit there thinking how fucked up girls are. We always end the report with the something along the lines of "Whatever, I've still got the brunette hotties number... her loss."

Guess what? It's real easy for a number to not give a shit about you.
When's the last time you expected any sort of decent behavior from a fuckin' trophy?



You have two options:

You can treat a girl like a number, then get surprised when she acts like one.
OR
You can treat a girl like a person, then get surprised when she doesn't.

Guess which one is more effective.

There is no WAY you can expect to raise a girls value to your level if you constantly treat her like she doesn't have any.

But, if you realize that she, just like every other human being on this planet, is high value from the start... then we're getting somewhere.

Once you realize that... any small mistakes she makes are just that, mistakes. She knows it, you know it, and it quickly gets corrected.

Once you make this shift, abundance is no longer about numbers. It's not about replacability... it's about Life Alignment. There are only so many hours in a lifetime. Who can you spend time with to create the most rich and interesting life possible? Who can you give and recieve the most value from? Who will bring you closer to your purpose? Who brings joy and happiness and everything YOU WANT wherever she goes?

A funny thing happens when you start treating girls like the amazing, joyful, playful creatures that they are.

They start acting that way.