Reactivity, Unreactivity, and Proactivity

re·ac·tive (rē-āk'tĭv) adj.
Tending to be responsive or to react to a stimulus.

un·re·ac·tive (un-rē-āk'tĭv) adj.
not tending to react to stimulation

pro·ac·tive adj.
(of a policy or person or action) controlling a situation by causing something to happen rather than waiting to respond to it after it happens

Reactive is what you don't want to do. It's taking something external allowing it to affect you. It's basing your mood on the response you get. It's letting a shittest phase you. We all know this is bad.

Unreactive is what RSD is pushing. It's not letting others phase you. It's having her scream at you and you not flinch. This is leaps and bounds better then reactivity.

A lot of guys ask: If I'm not reacting, what am I doing?
Here's the answer: You're proacting.

You're not standing there like a statue, indifferent to everything she does. You're not unresponsive.

You're not reacting to stimuli... You ARE the stimuli. You have internal drives, internal desires, internal thoughts. THESE ARE WHAT YOU SHOULD BE BASING YOUR ACTIONS ON.

This is taking unreactivity a step further. Unreactivity is something that will get a female intrigued, maybe a little attracted, she's used to guys reacting to her. Proactivity will have her giving you those little puppydog eyes, chasing you, asking for YOUR number. Girls like guys who follow their desires.

Be Proactive.